Without a conscious life-purpose a man is totally lost, drifting, adapting to events rather than creating events. Without knowing his life-purpose a man lives a weakened, impotent existing, perhaps eventually becoming sexually impotent, or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex. 

The core of your life is your purpose. Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world. if you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret to success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.

Now I’ve written in mans perspective, but the same applies to women as well. Men are often seen as muscular and the feminine going through the feelings in life. With regards to that any of us is responsible for their own life, period. Stop wasting blame-time on others. Look at what you got right now. Your external reality is often a mirror of your internal self. Start with something.

The elevator to success is broken, so take the stairs. 

Cheerios,

Stephan

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33 thoughts on “If you don’t know your purpose, discover it, now.

  1. Sometimes you aren’t gonna wanna embrace life’s twists but it can become your purpose.
    All the curveballs thrown at me have only made me one super strong bitch.
    Thanks for the post!

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    1. If a person becomes blind, you can complain all you want… but your still blind! Instead of looking at how others seem to have a somewhat better life, that is none of your concerns. The king is just as equal as you. He got ears, eyes and bleeds etc. We are already perfect. There is no need to prove yourself to others. Become a better version of yourself.

      Live with what you got. We all fall down in life sooner or later. I did, you did. The trick is to get up with whatever remains within you. Makes me a tough motherf*cker and you a superbitch! (some weird superhero names isn’t it? xD)

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      1. Damn! Wow… How old did you say you were? Very wise man. I gotta know… As positive as you are… You had to have had a good beating from life your self… In my opinion, no matter rich or poor, life is what you make of it… Happiness is a choice.

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      2. Just 25 still freakingish young 😉 Mhm reached a point where taking my own life away seemed silly. From this “fuck everyone and everything”, near deathlike experience I started to appreciate life. It was a killing of my ego. All I do is pretending to be someone who I am not, cuz nobody can look inside my body. Honestly admitting this was a huge relieve, but a hard one as well cause life goes on. Nobody changed except me from inside. Looking through these eyes from a loving, funny, being in this moment perspective.

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      3. on the bottom side there is the dirt you’re carrying. It’s human nature to ignore and suppress our own fear and pains. You gotta accept both sides of the coin, not just the fun stuff cause you’ll be waiting desperately for fun times in darker moments. They won’t come through hopes and wishes, you gotta fcking claim your own existence. To be alive and not merely existing. Nows, this very moment, treasure it!

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  2. Rad! Love this short but deep piece. You’re totally spot on. I actually just wrote a post on how we can control our thought pattern to choose the positives over negatives, it kind of intertwinens with what you’re speaking of in this post of yours 🙂 great minds think alike. Thank you for finding my page and liking my post so I could find yours. Loz from Aus (Australia)

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  3. It’s so real the connection between our way of living and our sexuality. Awareness is a gret way to open your mind and your heart to the way you perceive yourself. Even if you don’t like part of you, those parts may be your best way to reach your goals, it depends a lot on perspective! Nice post!

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  4. Yes we are all born for a certain purpose in life, and we need to know what it is. For some they are born with a gift and they develop it and that is their purpose. To share that gift with others. Some take time to find out. The thing is suddenly there is something tugging at you above everything that you want to do. It doesn’t go away. The more you keep quiet the stronger the urge. Then that is calling, your purpose in life. Something that gives you the most satisfaction and happiness in life in doing so. Love and Light from me 🙂 ❤

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  5. Sorry to be the party pooper ( not complaining about your writing or prose… which is excellent by the way), but some times you can loose direction in life and not have a purpose or calling. When things are going swimmingly well, we can celebrate and call it directed and purposeful living…but for others existence becomes a morbid cry for help and guidance. There is no silver bullet to the solution, but we each must wait our turn until the path becomes clear

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  6. All people introduce themselves saying “Hey my name is___.” But nobody ever follows that statement up with “And my life is about ___.”
    Imagine the reactions you would get out of people if after they introduced themselves, you asked them what their life was about. They would more than likely have absolutely no idea on how to answer it but would force them to really get critical with themselves when they come to that realization. People need to know what their life is about, and it is 100% tied to knowing what your passion is. Good way to start the conversation by typing up this piece @StephanHimself

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    1. Hello, my name is Eva. My life is about planting a seed of love in another’s heart and feed positive energy to those who need it … It is why my blog is about relationships. It fills my life with joy when I know people believe in love like I do. When they don’t, I give them reason to. Not everybody accepts my love giving nature, but I’m damn sure they take a seed. I know later it will grow. I know later then, it will spread. One at a time baby….. One at a time! Lol

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  7. You know what darling…. I love every single of your posts. You’re doing a wonderful thing here. You have such an amazing spirit with enough force to lift another. Your words/ quotes/posts is all it takes to make someone’s day a shiny bright one.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Keep it up dear, you are an amazing soul.

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  8. The wife and I really love this blog and appreciate the creativity and inspiration you provide. If you ever decide to take this blog to the next level by offering a Mobile App version I would love to be of service for an extremely low price, we appreciate the hard work you have put into this blog and wish you all future success in business and in life.
    Thank you for your time, it is the most precious thing we all possess.
    -Jacque’

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  9. A real insightful post!

    I’ve been writing about finding your life purpose so it’s really nice to get some more inspiration from other blogs! I even found 7 questions that help you defining your life purpose; really interesting and insightful! 🙂

    Job well done. Keep it up!

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